Friday, March 28, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ELLA!


Today, our "baby" Ella is growing up. Ella has left the world of "Terrible 2-half" (Yes, we really taught her to say that when people asked her age), and she is now THREE. THREE! Holy cow! She can count to three! Heck, she can count to ten! She can tie her own shoes (in a very non-traditional wrapping/twisting type of way), send herself to her room (if she accidentally hurts you, she gets very upset, and sends herself to her room...moping all the way), and tell you just what you should be doing at every moment of the day(dancing, running, or playing "catches"). In fact, today she will tell you she is NOT three! She is stuck on her favorite age, of "Terrible-2-Half."

So, our tribute goes out to the cutest, funniest, wildest, most stubborn red-head on the planet:

ELLA

Extremely
Loud, and
Lovable,
Always.Here is a list of some of her favorites:

Favorite Movie: The Wizard of Oz (aka "A-widge-a-Bob" said in a sing-song voice over and over)
Favorite Home: Alaska ("Alak-sa"...try saying that one!)
Favorite Kisses: Butterfly Kisses ("Futter-fy Kisses")
Favorite Quote: "But I LOVE you!" (defending the right to torture her baby sister, or you...)
Favorite Complaint: "I don't want to go home!"
Favorite Food: Apple Bars (Breakfast Bars)
Favorite Drink: Chocolate Milk (oh, and she'll spot it if you don't add the chocolate)
Favorite Activity: Dancing
Favorite Song: Anything she makes up at the moment...
Favorite Hair-do: None at all...haven't you noticed?

Who knew a kid could drive you SOOOO crazy, make you angry, make you feel guilty, make you feel exasperated, and make you feel exhausted...?

And at the same time make you feel joyful, thrilled, astonished, giggly, excited to share the world, proud, and so meaningful?

If someone would have told me I'd love a kid this much, I never would have believed them.

There is nothing more amazing in this world than having a wonderful spouse, and being part of this extraordinary creation of life.

Thank you for the three craziest years of our lives, Ella!

Sunday, March 9, 2008

We actually had twins...

Well, we were pulling up some old photos of our Ella in Polish Pottery just a few months after she was born, and suddenly, we realized...we have a problem. We didn't just have a new baby...we actually had a twin. Our twins just happen to be over 2 1/2 years apart in age. We were having a hard time figuring out which one was which in some of our photos.

So...you guess...which one is which in each row?

Ella is always on the left side, and Maiya is always on the right side. Just absurd how similar they look, huh?

Oh...and while I'm sharing these photos...check out the last one. This has been a favorite sleeping position for both Ella AND Maiya. Apparently, both of our baby girls have found this to be a comfortable way to sleep. Talk about a crick in the neck!!! I wonder if I (Alisa) favored this position as a baby, as well? Perhaps this is what stunted my growth? You can't sleep like this and turn out "normal"...can you?! But who wants to be normal?! :-)

Saturday, March 1, 2008

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Couples Quiz

I got tagged for the couples quiz. Thanks to my sister, Lara, you're all going to have to bear through a quiz about none other than ME!


How long have you and your significant other been together?
We have been married for 5 years in May! I still can't help but think about an experience 4 years ago when Jared went with me to a "girl's night out" at a friend's house (there were boys there too, watching sports in the other room). Anyways, the friend made a comment about how we were still newlyweds, and in several years we'll want breaks from one another. My response was probably a bit too sarcastic, as I noted that in several years, WE'LL still like each other. Thankfully, I am happy to say that we love being with each other all the time! And thank goodness for that...it is a huge blessing, since we are together 24-7! :-)

Who eats more?
It's about even...which is sad, considering he is a good FOOT taller than me! Truthfully, he eats more than me when we're away from home, but we eat pretty similarly portioned meals at home!

Who said "I love you" first?
Jared says, "I'm pretty sure I did, didn't I?" I said, "Hmmm...I don't remember..." I guess it all happened so quickly, perhaps we said it at the same time?! No, probably Jared...

Who is taller?
"Who isn't taller than me?" (Well said, Lara)

Who sings better?
Me, although you'd be surprised to know that Jared breaks into song on his own...

Who is smarter?
We're both smart in different ways. Jared's the logical planner, and I'm the logical... hmmm... something else? In fact, we're each so "logical," that our logic doesn't always match, and then there's a nice battle. No one ever wins, either :-) Luckily, Jared has a better memory than me, because I claim that the babies sucked every last inch of memory out of me (although Jared would argue I didn't have much of a memory to start...it is VERY selective)!

Who does the laundry?
Jared. Whew! :-)

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?
We actually switch sides every 6 months, when we move to and from Alaska. In fact, we've switched several times since we've been in Washington this winter. Before Maiya was born, Jared slept closest to the door (so that'd HE'D have to deal with Ella getting out of bed, since she was making a habit of sneaking out of her room in the middle of the night!). Now I sleep closer to the door, so I can get up and get Maiya easier. That doesn't mean that I usually wake up before him, though...I seem to no longer hear babies cries...so he has to nudge me...

Who pays the bills?
Jared pays all of the credit-card-type bills, and rents (more than we should have, with the biz included). I pay all of the business bills (vendors, etc). Neither one of us would want each other's jobs!

Who mows the lawn?
Hallelujah-we don't have a lawn! Well, not hallelujah that we DON'T have a lawn...just that we don't have to MOW one!

Who cooks dinner?
Me, me, me, me...unless you want breakfast burritos. Jared's very helpful in the kitchen, though!

Who is more stubborn?
Oh gee...that's a tough one. Let's just say we have each met our match!

Who is the first to admit when they're wrong?
We are both never wrong (see previous question).

Whose parents do you see the most?
Jared's parents are 2 hours away. :-) Mine are 2 days away! :-(

Who kissed who first?
Jared! The poor guy, I teased him... Now just ask who held each other's hand first...and there's a debate that will never end...

Who proposed?
Jared! He was so sweet and took me to a memorable/significant location. I, on the other hand, was a complete snot, and told him I wouldn't get out of the car, because I didn't have hiking shoes on :-) Poor guy, why did he have to end up with a feisty one like me?

Who is more sensitive?
Jared, Jared, Jared, Jared, Jared!

Who has more friends?
Me. But it's not about quantity...it's all about quality! Okay, so truthfully I have real quality friends... ;-)

Who has more siblings?
Jared has 3. I have 4...love 'em all!

Who wears the pants?
Hmmm...maybe you should refer back to the stubbornness question. I guess you should say that we are pretty equal "business partners" in life. I guess it bleeds over from our business...

So, I'm supposed to tag some more people, but I can't remember who has already done this quiz...hmm...here goes:

Morgan
Yasmine
Donald & Lisa
Cara

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Wow...a 2nd update this month?

Yes, it is true...I am actually posting a 2nd update this month...wowee! Maybe this time I won't write a novel!

So, we just returned from Philadephia for the weekend. We went to the American Craft Market Show...which is just a it sounds: an American Craft show where we were shopping for products to carry in our store. It is a show meant mostly for Fine Art Galleries, which we are not, but we found some nice middle-end products that aren't too pricey for the customers we cater to.

It was soooo sooo cold in Philadelphia...and trying to pack as lightly as possible, we didn't pack jackets or hats! Geee...that was a dumb idea! We stayed at a Holiday Inn in the Historic District, and walked about a half a mile to and from the show each day. We didn't get the chance to see much of the historical stuff (due to them closing at 5, and we were in the show until about that time)...but at least we got a chance to see the Liberty Bell! Also, our hotel overlooked the cemetery where Benjamin Franklin was buried. I guess that sounds sort of freaky, but it was a pretty neat looking cemetery :-)

Jared and Maiya (and Alisa) were wiped after a long day of walking the show...
Maiya was excited to be out of the front carrier, and was enjoying a stretch!

The flights to and from Seattle went without much of a hitch. We got our own row in 3 of the 4 flights (we had layovers in Atlanta, and then in Cincinnati). However, the last flight was just miserable. After leaving our hotel at 4am Philly time (1am ours), we had an early start. The last flight was about 5 hours long, and an out-of-control 1 1/2 year old (I'm guessing) kicked the back of my seat the ENTIRE time. Geee...that mother had NO control of her child, whatsoever. And when I mean that kid KICKED my seat...and I mean she KICKED my seat! She slept for maybe 1 hour of the trip, so I got a break from it just for that long. Arghhh.... LOOONNNNGGGG flight.....

When we got back, we went and spent the night at Jared's sister's house in Chimacum, West (across the water) from Seattle. We got to see her 3 wonderful kids, and hubby. They just loved seeing Maiya, but were sad that Ella wasn't with us. Is it wrong of me to say that I wasn't sorry that Ella wasn't with us? ;-) In the morning, we drove up to Sequim, and visited the travel trailer of our dreams! It is 40 feet long, and has 3 pop-outs. It has a separate large bunk room with room with 4 beds, and a separate dinette set, cabinet space, etc.
The master bedroom is the biggest we've seen (see above left), with TONS of cabinets (there are many more cabinets not pictured on the right hand side of the room). The bathroom has a nice large shower, and even a closet for a washer and dryer! Yay!! Best of all, every room has huge double-pane windows, and the kitchen even has sliding double doors! Sunshine, here we come! So...this is our plan for our Fall purchase. We have found quite a few dealers in the area, and have already begun collecting data to begin a pricing war...hehehee :)

Ella had a lot of fun at her Grandma & Grandpa's house. She gave us such an ecstatic greeting when we returned, however! It was so sweet! She was especially excited to see Maiya. She just adores her SOOOO much :-)And here's Ella with her beautiful full-size quilt from Nana (her Christmas gift)! She loves it!
So, now I REALLY need to get to work on the accounting for the business. Taxes are coming up, and I have been carefully avoiding completing this project for the past 4 1/2 months (well, actually, for a full year, if you count the last time I was completely up to date with my records)! So, don't tell Jared what I've been up to...although I'll admit he suspects my avoidance! :)

Sunday, February 10, 2008

January in the Lybbert Family

Hello again, everyone! Well, it has been impossible to stay up on blogging this last month or so...it seems my average is 1 post per month, which is still better than none! Besides, with the length of my posts, 1 seems to be plenty! :)

I FINALLY took some more pictures of Maiya (besides the ones from the first day that Ella saw her at home after bringing her home from the hospital). She is SUCH a sweet baby, and Ella is the very proudest sister! Here is a photo of Maiya wearing the sweet little dress that my Aunt Martie made for her...oh, so soft and dainty! I love the photo on the 2nd row, with Maiya looking scared to death, and Ella looking THRILLED to be holding her. This is a pretty typical scene in our home...Ella being overly excited to kiss and hug Maiya, and Maiya trying to be as tolerant as she can.
We had some fun things take place this past month. But first, a little over a month ago, on December 31st, we celebrated Jared's 30th birthday! Whoa! I married an old man, huh?! We went to his brother's house in Ephrata, Washington, for New Year's Even, and had potluck festivities with his parents, aunts, uncles, and some cousins! Of course, celebrating Jared's birthday on New Year's Eve is always fun...and we are never short of festivities!

Just a few days into the New Year, we took Ella up to Grandma and Grandpa Lybbert's house in Quincy, and Jared, Maiya, and I drove down to Portland for the weekend. We had a small Trade/Gift Show to attend there, and it was also a great excuse to see the Stegall Family. Steve Stegall is my old boss in Skagway (lives in Oregon in the winters), and he is an amazing artist who works with wood, carves fossilized ivories (wooly mammoth, and fossilized walrus ivory), and is a fabulous rock hound. His family is currently renting a home in Canby, just 30 minutes south of Portland. We stayed with them, and they treated us to some wonderful healthy home-cooked meals. They sure know how to eat right...natural, organic, and fresh! You should check out Steve's artwork on his website (http://agatheringofspirits.com/)...he is an extremely talented artist, and I love his wife, and twin teenage daughters. They used to be little girls...but they have grown into beautiful women!

In addition to seeing the Stegall family, we also managed to buy a MINI VAN!! You read that right...we finally decided it was time to expand! We have loved driving our Saturn Wagon for 3 1/2 years now. The Saturn was a great purchase on eBay for only $2100, but since we bought it in New Jersey, we paid $3200 including the shipping. Still, that was a steal for the nearly-perfect condition, and low miles. We discovered that there are MANY more used cars for sale in the East...probably due to the concentrated population? Who knows! So, anyways...after driving home from Alaska this summer...we decided that driving in that Saturn was not going to cut it anymore. It was a great size for us up to that point, but adding another child, and our growing need to transport business items back and forth, it just wasn't going to work anymore. So, we decided we would drive the Saturn onto the ferry in Bellingham this Spring, and take the 3-day ferry up to Skagway. The problem with that, is that it would cost us nearly $750 EXTRA (more than gas for a car to drive up) each way, to and from Alaska this year. We contemplated it, and decided we'd rather put that $1500 towards a larger vehicle that we could drive all the way to Alaska...and save the money in future years. So...we found an AMAZING 2001 Pontiac Montana minivan for only $4,000 (we talked the seller down!), and with less than 85,000 miles on it. (Now...trying not to stray from the order of events...I will mention that 3 weeks later we managed to sell our 1996 Saturn Wagon for $2500, which meant that upgrading to the 5-year-newer van, with HALF the miles, only cost us the $1500 that we would have thrown away taking the ferry! What a deal!)

When we returned for Portland, Maiya developed a really bad eye infection. Shortly after she was born we realized that her left eye was a little bit goopy. As we later learned, this is because she had a clogged tear duct in that eye. Then, thanks to (most likely Ella's) dirty (boogery) fingers, Maiya contracted a viral infection in her eye. Because of her eye not draining properly, it meant that it was a pool of liquid just ripe for infection! Anyhow, you can't do anything about viral infections...and we assumed we'd just let it pass its course. HOWEVER...it got VERY bad, and a week later I gave in, and finally took her to a doctor. He told us that it she had gotten conjunctivitis (Pink Eye) on top of the viral infection. So, he gave us antibiotic drops for her eye, and noted that I could use the same drops on my eye (since that morning I woke up with an infected eye, as well)! Her eyes cleared up several days later with the drops, but mine never improved (which means mine was simply viral), and then Jared got it a few days later, as well. We had to let our viral infections "pass their course"...and were left with awfully itchy and drippy eyes for about a week. Thankfully, Ella never caught it...whew!

We managed to drive to Quincy (2 hours north) all but one week in January...which meant that we didn't get a heck of a lot accomplished, except for in that one week! We used that last week to spend hours and hours getting orders ready for our second trade show, in Seattle. It snowed a ton that week, which is extremely unusual in Tri-Cities, Washington (lovingly referred to as the "Banana Belt of Washington" by Jared's Dad). Here is a photo of Jared trying to chip away a layer of ice under the snow on our van (Ella is to the right of the van, but very well disguised in her "snow bunny" suit)!

We again took Ella to Grandma & Grandpa Lybbert's house, and we started the adventurous journey to Seattle. I say "adventurous"...because with the weather being so bad, it was quite interesting. We had planned on leaving for Seattle on Friday morning, in time to get to the show at noon. However, living in Eastern Washington, we have to go over a very high mountain pass in the middle of the state, to get to the coast. The major pass, Snoqualmie, had been closed on and off for the few days previous, due to avalanche and snow control. It had been snowing a LOT, and more snow was on the way on Thursday night and Friday morning, so we realized we needed to get over a mountain pass asap (before more snow fell)! So on Thursday we dropped off Ella, and immediately left to find a way to get over the pass. The northern pass (Steven's Pass) was closed, along with Snoqualmie, so we had to drive south through Yakima and go through the White Pass.

The pass turned out to be surprisingly clear from ice and layers of snow. We got through the pass without any incidents, however, when we got to the other side, we took a small road north to cut over to the major highway leading up to Seattle. What we didn't know is that the side road took us up a terribly snow-covered road in the mountains! Within 10 minutes the road up got so bad, we thought we might have to turn around. Jared's theory, however, was to keep going until the van could no longer keep going. I was convinced that we'd come to a standstill at any point, considering we were having a tough time going up the hill...but he managed to keep us moving for all 60 miles of that road. By the end of the road, Jared was a wreck, and I was a wreck just dealing with HIM being a wreck! The roads didn't bother me, because Jared is so capable and such a safe/cautious driver...but the roads strained his patience...and he strained mine! :) At the end of the weekend, when returning to Quincy, Snowqualmie Pass once again closed before we managed to get there. So, on the return trip, we took Steven's Pass, which was just beautiful. Here is a picture taken up there (not by us) of what the artist calls "snow blobs"...which is somewhat what all of these mountain passes looked like after the weekend! To date, Snoqualmie pass has received over 400 inches this winter! Holy cow! (I write this with a chuckle...thinking of my sister, Lara, who lives in Atlanta, and had church canceled because of a DUSTING of snow)

Anyways...we went to the Seattle show with Maiya, and since strollers aren't allowed, I strapped her in a front carrier for the 2 1/2 days we were at the show. Going to the trade shows is a lot of work (both physically and mentally), but is very rewarding. It seems that there are miles and miles of booths (such as these), where businesses display their wares in hopes that you will buy. We were prepared for the first year ever, and were able to hand our current vendors orders for this coming summer. They were so thankful for the organization, and so were we! We also found many new products to carry, and many possibilities. For all those of you who wonder what the heck we do all winter long (since you may find it hard to believe we do anything but sleep and watch movies), my challenge to you is that YOU should try figuring out how to spend $140,000, and YOU would be quite busy, too! We have carried over 9,000 different SKUs (that all must be entered in our POS system by hand), and have worked with over 130 vendors so far (and will likely be adding 20-30 more vendors this year). If we make a bad purchase, we end up losing...and I won't even mention accounting for all of the purchases and sales afterwards...the record-keeping involved, etc...(oh wait...I just mentioned it)!

Just like the Seattle show, Maiya got a lot of attention. It's funny how nearly ever woman who saw her would ooh and ahh. Also, the salespeople would talk to you about the baby in an effort to start conversation, and keep you looking at their products for a longer period of time.

So, I guess you can say we are looking forward to Alaska, again. Not necessarily ready to head back just yet, but when we're buying products, and imagining new displays, suddenly we're excited to be there, and see how it will all come together! Our apartment lease ends on April 5th, and we'll go spend a few days at Jared's parent's place in Quincy, and then we'll head up to get there by mid-April! We will be installing wood laminate flooring this Spring, finally getting rid of our terribly stained white carpet installed by the previous tenants (so dumb)!

Also, on a random note...Jared and I have pretty well decided that we will become full-time RVers in the Fall. We plan on selling our Alaska travel trailer at the end of the summer, driving back down here, and picking up our new 5th wheel direct from the factory. We found a dealer who will give us the 5th wheel (ordered directly from the factory with all of our specifications of colors, and options) for well under the retail price that everyone else offers (try up to $18,000 less)! So, we'll have to sell our lovely new van in less than a year (which we can probably sell even for a profit...since we got such a steal!), and purchase a dumb passenger diesel truck (I say dumb because they eat gas even more than minivans...but what do you do?!). We are tentatively planning on driving down to Rockport, Texas, for next winter. It is right on the coast (about 30 minutes north of Corpus Christi), and has heavenly winter temperatures! Here is a photo of our future 5th wheel living room, with the exception that instead of the booth dinette set, we will get a table (with an extra leaf) and 4 chairs. It has 4 pop-outs (versus our ZERO now!). We like the interior colors in this living room, and there will be 2 bedrooms (master and a bunk/children's room in the back with 3 beds and its own entertainment center). And we'll also have a large standing glass-door shower! WOHOO!! Such a change from our miniature 1/4 size bathtub (that Jared can't stand up straight in). Although the trailer is only 4 feet longer than what we have now, having more privacy with individual rooms, and having the 4 pop-outs will probably make it feel twice the size of our current one! Something to look forward to all summer...and waiting until the fall will really make us appreciate the new amount of space we will have!

So, I finally got around to making a baby announcement, and getting it printed. If you look REALLY closely, you might notice my mistake. Look closely, and take a guess: "Maiya Lynn" should be "Maiya Lyn"...of course, "Lynn" would be more normal, but she's named after Jared's mom, Marilyn, and therefore "Lyn" is the correct spelling! I'm ashamed...shouldn't a mom know how to spell her own daughter's name? Maybe she'll never notice it in her scrapbook...HAH!

Ella recently received a surprise in the mail from Nana (my mom!). .. a quilted book that illustrates the "Monkeys jumping on the bed" song. This one, however, is the "Funky Monkeys" jumping on the bed! Ella LOVES that "song" (I suppose it's more of a sing-song rhyme)...thanks Nana! Don't you love Ella's pose on the left, with the book upside down? And on the right is a picture of Ella being her goofy self. Have I ever mentioned how FUNNY she is? She has SO much personality, and she LOVES to come up with funny clothing combinations! Nana forwarded on a box of hand-me-downs from a sweet gal in Kansas who has been dressing Ella since she was 6 months old. Ella had so much fun putting on all of the new clothes...some of them are SOOO cute! So, Ella put together a goofy combo of old and new. The socks she got at Christmas from Nana (who gave her a big bag of socks that she desperately needed!), the shoes are new hand-me-downs, and too big for her now, and the warm suit she is wearing is WAY too small for her (but was great for walks and hikes in Alaska during the summers)! She was running back and forth in our apartment, saying "I'm a dinosaur!" She remembers everything...I must have called her "Barney" once in that outfit...and explained to her that he is a dinosaur. Doesn't she remind you for Barney?! So much personality!

About a month ago, we caught Ella in the act of doing something very funny (yet, again). I have mentioned before that Ella has a life-like baby doll that she got from her Grandma & Grandpa for Christmas. Well, after Christmas, we noticed that Ella began putting Maiya's diapers on her doll. She puts them on, on her own, and straps them on perfectly each time. A week after this start, after I changed Maiya's diaper, I noticed Ella running to the bathroom to dump something in the trash. I went and looked in the trash, and saw that there was a PERFECTLY CLEAN diaper that she had taken off her doll, Emma, and had wrapped up, and trashed. She had it wrapped up just like Mommy & Daddy, pulling the straps tight in a ball to keep the dirty diaper closed. Suddenly I realized this wasn't the first time she had done this, and we began to have to watch the trash for clean diapers, and sneak them out when Ella wasn't looking. What a goof! Oh, and Ella is SOOO good at changing diapers. So, she is allowed to help change Maiya, and she does a very nice job. Sometimes she gets upset at Maiya, however, because Maiya's leg kick Ella away. Maiya is a very strong kicker (a future soccer player, I'm sure)!

Another thing Ella loves is her "I am a child of God" crown that she colored in Nursery at church. She wears it around the house all the time, and even insisted on wearing it into Costco once. What do you do? For this picture, I had to fix the sunglasses for her, because she INSISTS that they go upside down. :::sigh::: What do you do with a 2 1/2 year old that knows more than you do? Oh, and on another funny note...we taught her to say that she is "TERRIBLE two and a half" when anyone asks! Hehehee...are we bad parents? Her 3rd birthday is in about 6 weeks, and she knows it is coming up. She looks through our family calendar on the wall, and points out the picture of her on her birthday. She has informed us that she is getting a new "Puter"...which means she is trying to convince us that is getting a new COMPUTER. Can you believe this kid?!

That's it for now. We are headed out to Philadelphia on Valentine's Day for the American Craft Market Show. It is a show nearly twice the size of the temporary booths in Seattle (AHHH!!), and each vendor is actually an artist who makes their products in the US...such a rare thing, nowadays! We will have 2 days packed full of walking UP and DOWN the isles with Maiya strapped in a front carrier. Ella will return to Grandma's house for the weekend, and get to ride Grandma's school bus 4 times! Ella LOVES the school bus, and she LOVES going to Grandma & Grandpa's house!

WHOA...this is a LONG post...but at least it's a post! :)